How old am I?

I grew up in East Orange, NJ. At the turn of the 19th century one of the wealthiest cities in the US. Today it has an 18% poverty rate with median household income of $58,659, well below the $97,000 for the State.

Progress in the form of two major highways cut the city in quarters and destroyed many of the places of my youth, including a great park where I spent my summers and time after school.

Here is what I remember growing up:

  • The milkman making his deliveries using a horse and wagon with blocks of ice to keep his products cold
  • Trolly cars running on the Main Street through town
  • A playground with all steel swings, a slide and merry go round
  • My mother’s fear of polio and lining up for a shot and then a sugar cube
  • The mailman walking his route lugging a heavy leather bag on his shoulder
  • The doctor coming to the apartment when we were sick – and the needles in the butt that were not super thin
  • A slice of pizza for a dime
  • My weapon of choice was a pea shooter
  • The really tough guys in high school had a switchblade
  • Abe’s candy store by my grammar school where you could get candy for a penny or at least two cents – licorice pipes, button candy you pulled off paper, wax mini bottles filled with who knows what liquid and candy cigarettes so you could play grownup.
  • Playing outside, just playing. No organized sports teams, no cost, no travel beyond where we could walk
  • Walking to grammar, junior high and high school
  • Snow storms that truly were blizzards and building proper snow forts
  • The “I like Ike” campaign
  • Pleading for, but never getting a two-wheel bicycle
  • My mother lugging the wash to the apartment roof to hang it out to dry after she put the wash through the wringer
  • A special Sunday lunch at White Castle for $0.12 burgers, fries and orange soda and I could eat a dozen
  • My tanks of tropical fish
  • Walking to the stores, including the supermarket
  • My first electric train set – American Flyer. I can still smell the fake smoke
  • The movies on Saturday for thirty-five cents – that’s two movies and cartoons
  • Collecting soda bottles to return for two cents, if lucky five cents
  • My vast army of green rubber soldiers, trucks, tanks and more and then attacking them with dirt bombs
  • Fireworks actually held on the 4th of July
  • Making a fort out of boxes from delivered refrigerators – we called them ice boxes
  • Sitting on our apartment roof trying to spot Sputnik
  • My two gun holster and cap guns, a gun that made a bang using just paper and another that shot ping pong balls.
  • Sheltering under my desk in school
  • My favorite junior high lunch – Swiss cheese on rye from home and a cafeteria order of mashed potatoes and gravy for $0.07.
  • Driving a Mercedes 300SL in a Fourth of July parade with a young lady riding on the back – my father worked for a dealer
  • A week in the summer in Atlantic City at the Morton Hotel on Virginia Ave when you dressed for dinner, couldn’t walk on the boardwalk in a bathing suit, but could ride bicycles from 6:00 am until 8:00 am
  • My first car, a new 1963 VW Beatle that cost $1,895. My payment was $49 a month.
Pretty old it seems

4 comments

  1. Okay.  Let’s see how this one pisses off Vander Brink.  His persistent choice to be a malcontent is wasted talent.   To your message.  Back in 1982 I set about to convert EVERY incandescent street light in the City of Orange to High Pressure Sodium.  After work @ 252 Main St, and then bowling @ Palladium Lanes, I’d drive around the small city looking for any that were left.  They were still being billed for 16 that I could not find.  I went to Metro and searched antiquated pole cards and figured out that ROUTE 280 eliminated them on Oakwood, Hickory etc. but the orders to remove never processed billing.  Same thing probably occurred in EOrg.  Halsted etc.  Dividing Central Ave from Main St was precisely the architectural disaster with unintended consequences that you describe.  Bill Edge  

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  2. I enjoyed reading your memories. I grew up in Guttenberg and I mirrored all your memories with only the names and some prices being different. My preferred Sat afternoon was the Alvin theater two movies and cartoon for $0.25 and a box of jujubees for a nickel. I would go to the empty lot down the street and most of the time would be able to collect enough bottles to pay for the movies without asking for any money from mom. Good memories for sure!

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  3. Most of those hit home. Some pretty hard. But I was raised on a tenant farm. We had our own cows. Sold the cream in town. We had bread delivered instead (not by horse). Almost forgot about the sugar cubes. One of my friends had polio, even in crutches she was one of the most popular kids. The doctor didn’t come to us, we went to him, very rarely. Dad: “Lets give it a few more days, see if it goes away.” (Doesn’t work for broken arms.) No pizza. Almost never heard of it, till Chef Boyardee sold make-your-own kits. Mom wringing the laundry and hanging out to dry. We had no indoor plumbing, just a shack 50 feet behind the house. Baths were on Saturday, nine kids took turns in a galvanized tub. Ike is the first president I remember, but not very well. Movies were twenty five cents, but because of travel, we never started at the beginning. Come in in the middle, watch til the end, then stay until you recognize where you come in. I had the train set, too. Don’t really remember the smoke. It wasn’t until years later I realized what a sacrifice that was for Dad. Nine kids and we were –very– poor. Subsidized school lunches, about $1.50/week, I think. Half pint of milk was 2 cents more. I remember a lot of sonic booms. Military or civilian, I don’t know, but I was waiting for the coming fireball and the end of life as we know it.I went off to trade school in Indianapolis. Working part time to pay living expenses. On my way home, I saw my first White Castle. Ten burgers for a dollar. My salvation! I ate four and tossed the rest. Have never touched White Castle since.

    Small town USA, getting smaller. About 10,000 in 1965. Now a little over 8,000. I don’t know why. How old am I? 76.

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