The Messy Human side of Social Security Claiming 

Finally someone gets it. There is more to important decisions other than a spreadsheet and assumptions – and maximizing accumulated lifetime Social Security benefits is irrelevant.

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Note: The author is an impartial observer who lives in Northern Ireland

AUTHOR: Mark Crothers on 11/16/2025

American social security advice is admirably clear, I’ll give you that. Delay Social Security until seventy to maximize your monthly benefit and create the ultimate hedge against outliving your savings. The maths is clear and unarguable, an eight percent per year, guaranteed return for every year you wait past your Full Retirement Age. It’s presented with such confidence, if only one’s life was such a tidy actuarial table.

But for millions of Americans, watching this from my perch in the UK, the decision of when to claim benefits is decidedly not a math problem. It’s a human story, a deeply personal calculation of current utility, health, and peace of mind that often trumps the pursuit of the largest possible future check. There’s something almost cheeky about a spreadsheet trying to tell people how to live, regardless of which side of the Atlantic one resides on.

The most common reason for claiming early, between 62 and 67, is refreshingly simple: need. A job loss in one’s early sixties, an unexpected medical crisis, or the crushing weight of high-interest debt can quickly turn a retirement plan into a rather urgent struggle for solvency. In these scenarios, the immediate infusion of cash from a Social Security check, even a reduced one, becomes a lifeline, not some theoretical optimization problem.

It provides financial stability today, right now, ensuring bills are paid and high-interest debt is eliminated before it transforms into something truly ghastly. For many Americans, the peace of mind derived from having a consistent income floor now, when they need it most, is far more valuable than the promise of a bigger check a decade down the road. The models seem to forget people are actually living these years, not just calculating through them.

The mathematical model rests rather optimistically on the assumption that you’ll live long enough to reach the break-even age, typically around eighty, and collect enough of the higher payment to justify the delay. Lovely theory.

But what if health conditions or family history suggest a shorter lifespan? What if you’ve watched your father, two uncles, and your older brother all depart this mortal coil before seventy-five? For those facing such cheerful realities, delaying benefits becomes a gamble they cannot afford to win, or rather, cannot afford to lose. The goal shifts from maximizing the dollar amount to maximizing the enjoyment of the money they contributed over decades of work. Taking the benefit early ensures they receive their due while they’re alive and well enough to actually use it for travel, hobbies, or simply reducing the financial stress that can accompany poor health. The spreadsheet people rarely account for the utility of joy.

For married couples, the claiming decision often revolves around longevity insurance for the lower-earning spouse. The highest earner delaying until seventy creates the largest possible survivor benefit, a decision that protects their partner from potential poverty later in life. Very sensible, really, assuming everyone cooperates by living to the appropriate age.

The opposite can also be a utility play, and a rather sensible one at that. If the higher earner is in poor health, claiming early, even a reduced benefit, ensures the household has access to that cash flow when they need it most, rather than leaving the couple cash-strapped in their early retirement years while waiting for an uncertain future benefit. It’s all well and good to maximize survivor benefits if you’re around to see your spouse actually receive them, but living on rice and regret for eight years hardly seems like optimal retirement planning.

Social Security is a foundational retirement pillar that must be built on one’s real-life circumstances, not just a spreadsheet that’s never had to choose between medication and heating. The greatest utility may not be the largest final number, but the benefit that provides the most security, comfort, and opportunity during the time you need it. 62 is definitely not ideal, 67 is much better and 70 is perfect…it’s just a shame life is messy and human need has to come before logic for many ordinary people. Sometimes you have to come out of the high castle and meet the common folk.