Unhappy at work

I seem to recall many times during my fifty-year working career that I was unhappy.

When I read this article my reaction was
spoiled brats, but what do I know, I’m just an old retiree.

Like when I didn’t get a promised promotion, when a title related to my work was given to someone else, but I kept the work. When I lost my office to nepotism, when an employee didn’t like a performance review and filed false charges of fraud against me.

My favorite though was the time I applied for a job at another company and when I returned to work the next day I found the person who interviewed me had called my current boss who told him not to hire me.

Shall I go on? You can cram a lot of unhappy events into fifty years.

But pressing on was the thing, never giving up, finding away around obstacles. One step backward, two steps forward.

Excerpt from the Wall Street Journal

Americans, by many measures, are unhappier at work than they have been in years.

Despite wage increases, more paid time off and greater control over where they work, the number of U.S. workers who say they are angry, stressed and disengaged is climbing, according to Gallup’s 2023 workplace report. Meanwhile, a BambooHR analysis of data from more than 57,000 workers shows job-satisfaction scores have fallen to their lowest point since early 2020, after a 10% drop this year alone.

In interviews with workers around the country, it is clear the unhappiness is part of a rethinking of work life that began in 2020. The sources of workers’ discontent range from inflation, which is erasing much of recent pay gains, to the still-unsettled nature of the workday. People chafe against being micromanaged back to offices, yet they also find isolating aspects of hybrid and remote work. A cooling job market—especially in white-collar roles—is leaving many professionals feeling stuck.

Companies have largely moved on from pandemic operating mode, cutting costs and renewing a focus on productivity. The disconnect with workers has managers frustrated, and no quick fix seems to be at hand. Those in charge said they have given staff more money, flexibility and support, only to come up short.

The experiences of workers like Lindsey Leesmann suggest how expectations have shifted from just a few years ago. Leesmann, 38 years old, said she soured on a philanthropy job after having to return to the office two days a week earlier this year. 

Prepandemic, she would have been happy working three days a week at home. “It would have been a dream come true.” Still, her team’s in-office requirements seemed like going backward, and made her feel that her professionalism and work quality were in doubt. Instead of collaborating more, she and others rarely left their desks, except for meetings or lunch, she said. Negative feelings followed her home on her hourlong commute, leaving her short-tempered with her kids.

The Wall Street Journal Why Is Everyone So Unhappy at Work Right Now?

6 comments

  1. I do think it’s a good thing that they’re speaking out about things that our generation simply took in stride. I see nothing wrong with that. But at the end of the day, even though they may be more vocal that we were, they’ll still need to pay the bills and take care of themselves and their loved ones – and make choices based on all factors.

    And perhaps later, they’ll learn that nobody’s listening when they whine.

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  2. “Negative feelings followed her home on her hourlong commute…”

    I turned down one promotion and backed out of one new job opportunity because each involved a substantial increase in commute time. Math. The pay increase in either was not enough to compensate for the extra time ( and risk).

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  3. Well said. There are numerous articles where the headline screams how much worse things are today. A better journalist might attempt to dive deeper to see if indeed things are worse, or, are they simply perceived to be worse by people they interview or survey. You have offered many examples in the past which show many people misunderstand the facts about various topics and then form an opinion. I’d love to see a journalist write about that!

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  4. I feel the same way. I’m kind of old (61), but retirement is probably 5 – 6 years away. I’ve had some unhappy times at work, but I powered through. I’ve “voted with my feet” a few times when I wasn’t satisfied with my employer. That’s life.

    Behavior that is pretty normal to us is now heralded as “resilient” and “grit” – and they have books and training classes on how to build it. I got a pretty big dose of it from spending 5+ years in the Navy!

    As for the woman who feels “her professionalism and work quality were in doubt” – I’m sure it never crossed her mind that her bosses might have good reason to believe this.

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  5. Another piece where the author set out to find unhappiness in the workplace and found it. Surprisingly, it featured a person who was sent home to work and years later found the workplace different when told to report in 2 days a week. Of course the workplace was different after years of only video contact and emails. They adjusted to work from home and will take some time to get back in the commute routine.
    Spoiled?, no just adjusting to different routines. We are all creatures of habit and when the great mistake of the global shutdown occurred it created new habits and now back to some almost old habits but not quite.

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    1. “Recognize and adapt to the true nature of the world around you; don’t expect it to adapt to you.” – Charlie Munger (RIP).

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