No need to feel guilty if you can’t save 50% of your income

Have you read about those super savers who claim to save 50% of their income, who retire early in their fifties and then continue to live on 50% of what they earned during employment?

Pretty impressive stuff. I certainly couldn’t do it and never did.

Dig a little deeper into their story and you will likely find a couple of reasons for their ability to be frugal and super savers.

  • Dual incomes
  • One spouse still working while other enjoys retirement
  • No children and hence no grandchildren
  • Declining to pay for children’s college
  • Financially emancipating children at age 18
  • Or a combination of the above

Raising a child can be an emotionally rewarding experience. But it can also be very costly. Statistics from the Brookings Institution, an economic think tank, show that the average middle-income family with two children will spend $310,605 to raise a child born in 2015 up to age 17 in 2032. Excludes college costs.

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The cost of children doesn’t end when they become adults – think weddings perhaps and the spending can surely increase with grandchildren.

Grandparents spend an average of $2,562 annually on their grandchildren according to a AARP survey. 1 in 5, say they spend money on their grandchild’s school or college tuition, an average of $4,075 a year.

So…

don’t feel guilty if you are an average saver and your spouse is not employed, or you have children or grandchildren.

8 comments

  1. Dick, your thoughts are often well presented but you are completely off base on your hatred of the FIRE Movement. You are stereotyping that movement in very much the same fashion that you rail against (wisely) others for doing so on other topics.

    Our story:

    We both retired at age 56. 

    We were a single income family as my wife was wonderful enough to quite her job many years ago and stay home to be with our sons. 

    We raised 3 wonderful sons, all of who are doing well. And we absolutely cannot wait for grandchildren if they decide to bring them into this world.

    We paid in full for 3 bachelor degrees in full. Our sons have no college debt.

    We did save between 30 and 55% of our income for many years. Yet, we have had a wonderful life full of many, many joys.

    We worked hard, spent mindfully, saved diligently and invested consistently. Admittedly we may not be the norm and that is OK with us.

    Open your mind, please.

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    1. I don’t hate FIRE I think it is overrated and mostly misrepresented. Age 56 is not really FIRE. Any no doubt you had an income far above normal.

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      1. Dick, thank you for the response. I appreciate you making the time.

        We will have to agree to disagree on what constitutes Financial Independence, Retire Early. I don’t know many people who pull of being financially independent and retiring from any formal work at age 56 so I think it a somewhat special achievement. Maybe you know many more than I do.

        I did want to share with your readers that your stereotype of folk who do retire in their 50’s is not completely accurate.

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      2. It is indeed an accomplishment, i couldn’t do it. If you look at the FIRE blogs you will see they claim “retirement” in their 30s

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  2. Hopefully one teaches their children and grandchildren to be self-sufficient rather than become dependent on their parents/grandparents generosity.

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  3. different strokes for different folks–everyone has their priorities–would agree with brother Quinn and Jerry

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  4. Amen to that.2 kids, 8 grandchildren.No regrets.Retired at 67yo.72 now with no financial problems.

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